50 Shades Of Grey: Overview
Several years ago, a curious phenomena began to take hold in offices across the globe. According to some, it was a form of mass panic, some kind of mind control that compelled women to gather in huddles and murmur in reverence for the secret subject of whatever it was that was so deserving of the women’s admiration.
Because they had a respected tome at the center of their beliefs and rituals, some people thought they were part of some sort of religious cult. For the record, it’s now clear that 50 Shades of Grey was in fact the book in question.
The big-screen
In the Himalayas, there may be a goat herder who hasn’t heard about the latest film version of the books, but most of us have been bombarded with advertising to ensure that the information hadn’t slipped our minds. The subject matter, which is aimed at an older demographic, is very much in line with the Matcherry subgenre. Our assessment of the film and an informal examination of its themes are here to provide you, our readers (especially male readers on this occasion), some advance warning about what to expect.
The plot summary
To put it another way: The plot centers around Christian Grey, a millionaire with some unusual sexual preferences, and the sado-masochistic relationship he attempts to build with Anastasia Steele, a university student who interviews him in place of his sick buddy. As the novel unfolds, we can clearly see that Grey is deeply troubled, and he tries to entice Steele into his world of whips, chains, and other instruments of mild torment. However, he encounters some resistance from Steele when it comes to his sexual inclinations.
In the eyes of the critics.
The movie has had a mixed reception, to say the least, and yes, it has some issues. To be honest, the character growth is lacking. Standards have shifted in the modern media world when it comes to the treatment of main and supporting characters. TV networks like HBO and Netflix have stepped up their game and put movie companies to shame on numerous occasions.
This is an example of a time like this. When it comes to engaging the audience, the character Anastasia falls short on both counts. Despite his improvement, Grey’s character remains one-dimensional and lacks the necessary melancholy to keep us riveted. However, the intensity of their relationship is maintained, albeit with a certain amount of self-consciousness.
That’s what we’re after!
Let’s face it, the well-publicized sexual scenes in this Hollywood production are more essential to most moviegoers than the plot or character development. In terms of that, the film isn’t too shabby. There is just so much that a popular movie can get away with, and this film does just about as much as it can.
When viewed in this light, the sex scenes are definitely sensual, racy, and daring. There is a time and a place for patience, however. Only four real sex scenes, two of which are classic Hollywood, one of which incorporates very minimal bondage, and the last of which provides any sort of taste of sado-masochism, are featured in the film. So if you’re looking for an S&M porn-fest, you may want to turn back to your PC!
Audience members who fit the bill
S&M masters and mistresses who are hoping for an extreme visual delight, as has already been indicated, should pass on this. Realistically, it was never possible because of the widespread censorship currently in place around the world. While the deep end first method isn’t applicable here, it succeeds in giving an interesting sample of the scene as a whole.
For example, you may already be familiar with the scene but are wanting to introduce a new object of interest to it in a non-intrusive manner. We’ve made a list of questions that are frequently asked to help you get up to speed on the scene. Regardless, it’s a terrific opportunity to learn about S&M and expose newbies to the concept of safe, pleasant, and healthy bondage play.
Key concepts
Despite the fact that the substance of 50 Shades of Grey has been constrained in order to appeal to a broader audience, the book nevertheless serves as an excellent introduction to the S&M genre for those who are curious but lacking in prior experience. The most important and essential aspects are then discussed in detail in the following paragraphs.
The S&M color wheel. With as many colors of S&M as there are greys, they’re constantly pushing themselves to new heights. These might range from modest dominance, to severe pain and suffering. Anastasia is tied to a bed and blindfolded while Grey runs an ice cube seductively over her body in one of the sex scenes in 50 Shades.
With steel fittings on the back of the bed and a flogger, he lashes her body vigorously with the short whip with several tails. Some couples gradually move along the spectrum as their interest in softer activities dwindles, while others remain to a single degree of intensity and never stray. It’s critical that any upscaling is welcomed with open arms by both parties involved.
The roles that people play. Roles must be well established in order for domination or S&M to work properly. There should always be a dominating and a submissive partner in every relationship. Although these positions can be modified in more complex S&M. Exchanges between partners in a couple are normal, but things can go awry when both partners are openly declaring their identity as the same gender.
No one will have much fun if you can’t enjoy playing the opposite of your partner’s chosen character, and in the film, there is no mistaking who is playing what part for a second. You could, of course, bring in a third person to perform the underutilized role so that you and your partner can both enjoy your favorite part. Having fun with three people doesn’t have to be complicated.
Equipment for the job. The S&M item list includes whips, handcuffs, strap-on dildos, floggers, nipple clamps, costumes, gags, shackles, eye masks, electro rods, f*cking machines, butt plugs, cock cages, and spanking paddles.
By following Grey’s example, you can learn to walk before you can run. Learn about the various levels of discomfort, suffering and/or pleasure each creates, and introduce them in a gentle and gradual method. If you show up to a first date wearing a gimp mask, cattle prod, and cat o’ nine tails, you’re more likely to get a criminal record, or at the very least, a fast kick in the testicles!
We signed a deal. Grey and Anastasia sign a contract in the film negotiating all of the sexual aberrations that they are both ready to accept. However, the theory is simple: before engaging in sado-masochistic sex, both parties should have a clear understanding of how far they are ready to go and where the boundaries lay.
A mechanism must be in place to interrupt operations if one of the interested couples feels uncomfortable, especially when bondage and restriction are involved. Even then, approved actions may seem too much to handle in the heat of the real moment. Prior to having sex, the two of them should agree on an emergency stop word, which will force the dominant partner to release the submissive at the sound of its utterance. How to have the best rough sex ever? Here are 15 nasty ways to do it.
Dominance often involves deliberately ignoring statements like “no” and “stop” as part of the process, thus this is rare and out of character. Of course, such matters must be agreed upon by both parties before any action may be taken. Open up about your kinks with these 10 tips.
In no small measure, “50 Shades of Grey” has risen to the top of the box office. If you’re new to S&M, this is a great place to start. But if you just want to see something romantic and sensual, we advise you to go to the movies and see it. But beware, your perspective on sex may change forever!